most important character

in tagaytay, they have this "character of the month" that they encourage people to practise. like, patience or courtesy. i thought about it, and i've decided that for me, the most important is honesty. i try to be honest in everything, and i'd like people to be honest to me. especially about the most important things. experience has made me value the harsh blow of honesty to the gentler, but ultimately more painful slice of delusion.